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| 女人，不一定非常漂亮，也许只有几分可以让自己自信的姿色，但是一定有着丰富的情感，温柔而细腻。在现实生活中，她们或许都会有着或大或小的成就，是同龄人中的佼佼者，是别人眼中的能人。在工作中，她们可以独挡一面；在朋友面前，她们善解人意、尽力替朋友排忧解难。她们是生活中 看起来的强者。在太阳底下，她们是赏心悦目的女人。 |
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'Teaching a man to fish,and you feed him for a lifetime.'
It sounds good in theory. But is it realistic to make your kids 'work'?They are surposed to study or play or do something OTHER than 'work' . Parents 'work' for the future of their kids, right? But that's exactly why kids SHOULD do a little work---to learn responsibility. It's good for their futures. They should know how to do things like: clean up after themselves by putting their toys and books away. Perhaps they should even...
Throw out the trash.
Separate the stuff for recycling.
Dust the house.
Clean the floor.
If they are older, they can set the table or wash the dishes.
(Actually, in my house, washing the dishes is my job). Those are just some ideas of things that kids can do.
Sure, one of the first things that may come to mind is 'Cinderella,' but it's not like they are doing this all day long. They may do their 'chore' once a day or even once a week. But it's THEIR job. Not Mom's. When we talk about young kids and education, most agree that it should be fun, or the kids will get sick of it.
When we clean our house, we sometimes turn on music. We often all clean together. For example, when it's time to clean the floor,we might get two damp rags each and 'skate' around the room. We also clean the car together. When we all clean together, we give each other energy.
But doing some things alone to learn a sense of responsibility is crucial. Having a kid who is always 'dependent' makes life hard for a parent.
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